Let it Shine - Lorna Zanre, Lorna Zanre Art

Let it Shine - Lorna Zanre, Lorna Zanre Art

Let it Shine

“Even in my Home, I’m Gonna Let it Shine”.

This Little Light of Mine , Song by Sam Cooke Sam Cooke, and his singing, has got into my bones recently. Alexa will be putting in for a holiday as I’ve been asking her to play this song on repeat the past few weeks. This Little Light of Mine is a well known song, particularly if you went to Sunday School as a child.

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Navigating Postpartum Insomnia - Rosie Davies-Smith

Navigating Postpartum Insomnia - Rosie Davies-Smith

Navigating Postpartum Insomnia

Becoming a mother in the midst of a global pandemic

When I imagined becoming a Mum, it never crossed my mind it would be during one of the most unprecedented times in history. Not one, but both of my daughters were born during the COVID-19 pandemic. Sloane's birth (February 2020) was relatively straightforward and despite being during a time of such widespread uncertainty, there was something quite nice about being in our own little bubble, at home and safe.

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When you can't do it all - Polly Jemima

When you can't do it all - Polly Jemima

When you can't do it all

In our mixed-up society, there’s so much pressure on mums to be perfect at everything they do. We have to be mum, wife, cook, cleaner, friend, daughter, colleague, taxi driver, and a million more things and do all of them perfectly all the time. We wake up, after being up twenty times in the night with the baby, switch on our phones to be bombarded with pictures of ‘perfect lives’ – those IG feeds that are gorgeous – no piles of laundry, dirty dishes, kids messes or tantrums in sight.

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The New You - Daisie Lane

The New You - Daisie Lane

The New You

When you are told that becoming a parent changes you, you immediately think of the obvious, followed by the logistical day to day changes. You try to imagine the love, unlike any other. You try to envisage how your husband will look in fatherhood. You think about how you will manage less space in your car, how you will cope with the lack of sleep or whether you will want to return to work.

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What a Mum could Learn by Learning - Naomi Mottram, Naomi Mottram Translation

What a Mum could Learn by Learning - Naomi Mottram, Naomi Mottram Translation

What a Mum could Learn by Learning

Four years ago I was at my desk, at the university where I work, thinking up excuses not to sign up to Russian classes. I’d studied Russian years before, and now I had another opportunity through a work scheme but couldn’t convince myself to take the plunge… Just then my colleague bounced in having signed up to German lessons and virtually pushed me out of the office to the Languages Department. And, though I was literally shaking when I knocked on that door, I am truly grateful she did.

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Circles of Sisterhood - Anna Morton, Red Thread Doula

Circles of Sisterhood  - Anna Morton, Red Thread Doula

Circles of Sisterhood

On the new moon in the depths of rural Oxfordshire a group of women gather in circle. We talk, we rest, we release, we laugh. These women are my sisters. After the isolation of lockdown my dear friend and I put out the call and the whispers rippled through the village, “come women come mothers gather together you are not alone, and you never have been.” The response was beyond what we had hoped, the women came with gusto, relief, joy, nervousness, they came and took their seat in this circle, the seat made just for them.

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Lying down has become sacred to me since becoming a mother - Harriet Bailiss

Lying down has become sacred to me since becoming a mother - Harriet Bailiss

Lying down has become sacred to me since becoming a mother.

Actually, I think my desperate desire to just lie down began when I was pregnant. The act of relaxing during pregnancy was performed by positioning myself in officially-sanctioned positions, propped by sensible cushions, which could offer the sensible support required by someone sensible enough to become a mother. The idea of just lying down seemed suddenly rebellious.

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